{"id":795,"date":"2026-07-05T12:41:47","date_gmt":"2026-07-05T10:41:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dubeccoach.com\/?p=795"},"modified":"2026-07-05T12:45:09","modified_gmt":"2026-07-05T10:45:09","slug":"how-we-think-is-how-we-live","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dubeccoach.com\/sk\/how-we-think-is-how-we-live\/","title":{"rendered":"How we think is how we live"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Our brains are amazing machines that never stop working, thoughts come and go, we constantly process what we see, hear, feel and experience. Perhaps most of us have difficulty turning off this machine of thoughts and just be attentive to our inner voice, inspirations and truths about ourselves and about others.<\/p>\n<p>Thoughts aren\u2019t just personal, nor are they simply neutral; what we think shapes how we relate to ourselves, God and the world and that can have a universal impact. We have a wealth of history to illustrate these thoughts that impacted the world. Nazism bluntly denied inherent human dignity and viewed individuals exclusively through lens of usefulness to the state. Communist regimes and Marxism declare that only work grants meaning to the human person reducing worth to material value alone. Liberalism dictates that meaning lies in the unimpeded freedom to do anything, anytime, without limit and that treating another person as a means to an end is totally justifiable. These ideologies resulted in widespread wars, destruction and death.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand Christianity offers an entirely other narrative that confronts, with clarity and truth, the distorted understanding of what it means to be human. The thoughts of people who upheld the dignity of every human person, like Mother Teresa of Calcutta, St. John Paul II and many others, let to a worldwide surge of hope and life. \u201eIdeas have consequences\u201c said George Weigh, biographer of St. John Paul II. Our thoughts affect us, but they also affect others.<\/p>\n<p>The way we live and the choices we make start on the inside, how we think. Untruthful thoughts cause a downcast vision of life. Unchecked, they can grow into a debilitating wight that can blur our vision of life and what matters. Even healthy guilt<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>&#8211; the tugging of our conscience when we realize we did something wrong &#8211; can easily be twisted into a claim on our identity, suggesting thoughts like: \u201eI\u2019m wrong\u201c; I don\u2019t have what it takes\u201c; I\u2019m not enough\u201c; I\u2019m incapable of improvements\u201c; \u201eI\u2019m bad\u201c and so on\u2026. If we begin to believe the lies about ourselves, then we begin believing lies about others, and about the nature of life. But we don\u2019t have to succumb to untruth. We have the power to look up.<\/p>\n<p>We can decide what we want to think about and how we want to think about it. When these thoughts creep up we need to recognize it, difficult thoughts aren\u2019t places to run from , but places we can invite Light into. Christianity presents a clear idea about how to think about ourselves. My friend Sr. Mary Grace, SV summed it up well: \u201ethat we are not objects to be used, but free persons made for love, in need of healing and redemption. Thinking of ourselves in truth is what allows us to live with joy and purpose. This is the secret of life with Christ: He can transform every setback into another starting point.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>To start again with thoughts that are true, good and beautiful is our choice. Dwelling on the good<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>experiences changes us. Why not try to call to mind and talk about the one good thing that someone did for us?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Spreading goodness and talking about true and good experiences actually makes us more joyful. Next time we realize we are starting to think about the our hurt, pain and negative thoughts let\u2019s pause and stop before it becomes a steep downward spiral; instead let\u2019s ask ourselves are my thoughts true, good and beautiful? If one of these aspects is missing let\u2019s reevaluate and correct. It\u2019s not always easy, but the conscious decision not wanting these negative thoughts is the most important step. Singing or humming a song of praise or a song that brings on positive thoughts could be a good reset moment. With practice you will soon find out your best way to get back to the positive thoughts that rally matter.<\/p>\n<p>What do you believe? How do you think about your life? It matters, it can change the world.<\/p>\n\n    <div class=\"xs_social_share_widget xs_share_url after_content \t\tmain_content  wslu-style-1 wslu-share-box-shaped wslu-fill-colored wslu-none wslu-share-horizontal wslu-theme-font-no wslu-main_content\">\n\n\t\t\n        <ul>\n\t\t\t        <\/ul>\n    <\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our brains are amazing machines that never stop working, thoughts come and go, we constantly process what we see, hear, feel and experience. Perhaps most of us have difficulty turning off this machine of thoughts and just be attentive to our inner voice, inspirations and truths about ourselves and about others. Thoughts aren\u2019t just personal, nor are they simply neutral; what we think shapes how we relate to ourselves, God and the world and that can have a universal impact. We have a wealth of history to illustrate these thoughts that impacted the world. Nazism bluntly denied inherent human dignity and viewed individuals exclusively through lens of usefulness to the state. Communist regimes and Marxism declare that only work grants meaning to the human person reducing worth to material value alone. Liberalism dictates that meaning lies in the unimpeded freedom to do anything, anytime, without limit and that treating another person as a means to an end is totally justifiable. These ideologies resulted in widespread wars, destruction and death. On the other hand Christianity offers an entirely other narrative that confronts, with clarity and truth, the distorted understanding of what it means to be human. The thoughts of people who upheld the dignity of every human person, like Mother Teresa of Calcutta, St. John Paul II and many others, let to a worldwide surge of hope and life. \u201eIdeas have consequences\u201c said George Weigh, biographer of St. John Paul II. Our thoughts affect us, but they also affect others. The way we live and the choices we make start on the inside, how we think. Untruthful thoughts cause a downcast vision of life. Unchecked, they can grow into a debilitating wight that can blur our vision of life and what matters. Even healthy guilt\u00a0 &#8211; the tugging of our conscience when we realize we did something wrong &#8211; can easily be twisted into a claim on our identity, suggesting thoughts like: \u201eI\u2019m wrong\u201c; I don\u2019t have what it takes\u201c; I\u2019m not enough\u201c; I\u2019m incapable of improvements\u201c; \u201eI\u2019m bad\u201c and so on\u2026. If we begin to believe the lies about ourselves, then we begin believing lies about others, and about the nature of life. But we don\u2019t have to succumb to untruth. We have the power to look up. We can decide what we want to think about and how we want to think about it. When these thoughts creep up we need to recognize it, difficult thoughts aren\u2019t places to run from , but places we can invite Light into. Christianity presents a clear idea about how to think about ourselves. My friend Sr. Mary Grace, SV summed it up well: \u201ethat we are not objects to be used, but free persons made for love, in need of healing and redemption. Thinking of ourselves in truth is what allows us to live with joy and purpose. This is the secret of life with Christ: He can transform every setback into another starting point.\u201c To start again with thoughts that are true, good and beautiful is our choice. Dwelling on the good\u00a0 experiences changes us. Why not try to call to mind and talk about the one good thing that someone did for us?\u00a0 Spreading goodness and talking about true and good experiences actually makes us more joyful. Next time we realize we are starting to think about the our hurt, pain and negative thoughts let\u2019s pause and stop before it becomes a steep downward spiral; instead let\u2019s ask ourselves are my thoughts true, good and beautiful? If one of these aspects is missing let\u2019s reevaluate and correct. It\u2019s not always easy, but the conscious decision not wanting these negative thoughts is the most important step. Singing or humming a song of praise or a song that brings on positive thoughts could be a good reset moment. With practice you will soon find out your best way to get back to the positive thoughts that rally matter. What do you believe? How do you think about your life? 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